Wow, it's been quite a while since I posted anything on this blog.  The thing that's on my mind right now is myself, & how interesting or boring other people think I am.  I mean, I fully realize that my life is very sedentary right now, but I also know that is because of my health issues.  I'm also aware that my "hobbies", (or addictions, which is really what my reading & book-loving amounts to .... LoL), are not all that interesting to most people.  I LOVE READING, I love cats, & all animals, I enjoy doing decoupage & scrapbooking, (although I haven't done any for a while),  I ADORE MY GRANDDAUGHTER .... MY SWEET SUGARBEAN, & of course I also love my daughter with all of my heart.  I WANT to be interesting.  And truthfully, the real reason for that is because I do not wish to spend my future alone.  At some point I hope to be "ready" to date, or whatever, again, & I know I need to be able to hold a conversation & have a man like, (or love .... who knows .... LoL), me for who I am in my heart & mind.  Most men enjoy sports & outdoor type activities.  I have NEVER been an athletic person, not even as a child.  (My Dad LOVES to joke about my softball "skills" .... ha ha ha).  I do like being in the water, but before I would ever consider being seen in a bathing suit by any man, (other than brothers-in-law, nephews, Dad, etc.), I would need to do some SERIOUS work on my body.  I need to know, from any man who is willing to advise me, what sorts of things interest you about a woman's heart & mind?  Help a gal out here, huh guys?